Dear 4-year-old Caleb,

Sweet boy, how can it be that we will celebrate your fourth birthday in a just a few days?  I will never forget the first time we met face to face.  The first thing I noticed about you was that adorable little swirl of hair at the top of your forehead.  I thought it was just the cutest thing, and still do.  You are are such a gift to our family.

I want you to know a few of the things I love most about you.  I love how compassionate you are.  You are conscious of others around you and of how they are feeling.  You will share without being asked if you notice one of your siblings wanting what you have.  You are an includer.  When you ask to go on a Mommy-Caleb date, you always make sure we can bring Daddy, Mackenna and Lukey along too.  You even have a hard time choosing which super hero is your favorite because you just want them all to be your favorites.  You can’t bear the thought of someone being left out of the fun.  Speaking of fun…you are (as you would say) “SUPER fun!”  The life of the dance party, for sure.  You’ve got moves that rival Usher’s and when you dance I smile so hard that sometimes tears roll down my cheeks.  And speaking of smiles…ever since you were an infant, people have always asked this question about you, “Is he always this happy?”  And I about burst with pride when I get to respond that yes, you are.  You are so joyful, Caleb, and I love seeing your joy rub off on those around you…me included.

Happy 4th birthday, Buddy!  We love you very very much!